Games That Break the Ice (and the Small Talk)

Games That Break the Ice (and the Small Talk)

If you’re hosting a group and want everyone actually having fun - not just talking about what the weather’s doing - this one’s for you.

Whether it’s a birthday bash, wedding, hen or stag do, or the annual staff party, there’s always that moment where you hope cousin Ben and your mate Ginny somehow find something to talk about. Instead of crossing your fingers, just bring out a few solid games that get people laughing, moving, and chatting - without the awkward “so… what do you do?” energy.

Here are our top three ice-breaker games that guarantee good vibes - perfect for mixed groups, backyard hangs, or any get-together where you want to skip the small talk and jump straight to the fun.

1. Backyard Chats Tumbling Tower 

Part game, part conversation starter - our Backyard Chats Tumbling Tower takes the classic block tower and adds a twist: questions and conversation prompts on every block.

It’s the ultimate small-talk crusher. You’ll go from "Where do you feel most relaxed?" to “what’s the best animal sound you can make?” in seconds.

Why it’s perfect:

No skill required - anyone can join in.

Gets people talking fast (and laughing even faster).

Ideal for mixed ages and groups.

2. Giant Connect Four

Big, bold, and impossible to ignore - Giant Connect Four is the ultimate “come have a go” game. It’s nostalgic, instantly recognisable, and the perfect ice-breaker for people who’d rather do something than make polite chit-chat. Throw in a light-hearted challenge (“loser is on refills”) and suddenly everyone’s invested.

Why it’s perfect:

Everyone already knows how to play.

Quick rounds keep the energy up.

Great for mixing up pairs or random match-ups.

3. Deluxe Cornhole Set

Cornhole’s the game that quietly steals the show. It’s simple, satisfying, and somehow brings out everyone’s competitive streak - even the ones who swore they “don’t play games.” It's part skill, part luck, and 100% good vibes. Perfect for weddings, BBQs, or work parties where people want to play, hang, and chat all at once.

Why it’s perfect:

Easy to pick up, hard to stop.

Encourages friendly competition (and quality banter).

Works for small groups, big crowds, or late-night laughs.

Ready to Break the Ice?

So next time you’re planning an event - whether it’s a wedding after-party, birthday bash, or office do - skip the awkward intros and let the games do the talking.

Backyard Chats Tumbling Towers, Giant Connect Four, and Deluxe Cornhole are guaranteed to get everyone chatting, laughing, and maybe even becoming mates by the end of the night. 

After more ways to keep the fun rolling? Check out our premium outdoor games rangebuilt for good times and Kiwi backyards.